Honor the Game

 

Model and teach your players to Honor the Game.

 

Teach the elements of ROOTS–Respect for: Rules, Opponents, Officials, Teammates and Self

• Appoint a parent to be “Culture Keeper” for the team.
• Share with your players’ parents your desire for them to Honor the Game.
• Drill Honoring the Game in practice.
• Seize teachable moments to talk with players about Honoring the Game.

Help players Redefine what it means to be a “Winner” in terms of Mastery, not just the Scoreboard.

• Teach players the ELM Tree of Mastery (Effort, Learning, and bouncing back from Mistakes).
• Use a “Team Mistake Ritual” (like “Flushing Mistakes”) to help players quickly rebound from mistakes.
• Reward effort, not just good outcomes. Look to recognize players for unsuccessful effort.
• Encourage players to set “Effort Goals” that are tied to how hard they try.
• Use Targeted Symbolic Rewards to reinforce effort and team play.

Fill your players’ Emotional Tanks.

• Use encouragement and positive reinforcement as your primary method of motivating.
• Strive to achieve the 5:1 “Magic Ratio” of 5 positive reinforcements to each criticism/correction.
• Schedule “fun activities” for practices, so players will enjoy our sport.
• Use the “Buddy System” to teach players to fill each other’s Emotional Tanks.
• Develop “player coaches” by asking for player input and asking rather than telling them what to do
• Learn to give “Kid-Friendly Criticism” so players will be able to hear it. Criticize in private, “Ask Permission,” use the Criticism Sandwich; avoid giving criticism in non-teachable moments.

Have Conversations during Team Meetings with your players at every practice and every game.

• Review Honoring the Game, the ELM Tree and the Emotional Tank throughout the season.
• Remind players about these three concepts before and after every game.
• Ask questions and encourage players to speak and contribute during team meetings.
• Use the Winner’s Circle after a game to reinforce the positive things players did.

 

Good Luck and Have Fun!  It’s gonna be a great season!